Have you ever felt that your friends are taking you for granted? It normally happened after the 2 of you know each other for many years. Unconciously, we started to expect our friends to 'don't mind' whatever we said. Sometimes, we tend to say hurtful words but don't feel sorry about it because we think our friends know and understand us.
We started to ignore our friends' feeling and except them to understand and support us unconditionally. This is not fair for them because everyone has feeling. Although we know each other for more than 5 years, I always believe that we should respect and cherish one another feeling. There must be a balance. There should be give-and-take between us but not taking each other fo granted. Hurtful words will drive away your friendship. Don't blame others when one day you wake up and found that your only friend is your family. For I believe we should have friends other than family because there are things we can't discuss with our family.
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