Sunday, November 29, 2009

Financial problem breaks a family

Having money problem can break a happy marriage and cause the family to lost their love and patience. Money is important but I believe when we have financial problem, we should help and support each other, not pointing fingers and blaming each other. Isn't that what love is all about?

Is it true that the love for each other not strong enough to withstand the financial difficulty and brave through it together with a little bit more of patience and caring? I always believe that one should support our other half to weather any problems. Quarreling and pointing fingers won't solve the situation but worsen the situation. When love one is already stress and worry trying to make end meets one should stand by him and give him moral support.

Giving him encouragement and positive support, not only help him calm down but gives him the confidence and strength to go on, not giving up. Yes, there will be financial sacrifices but isn't love for each other stronger than luxury life and the bling-bling? Yes, your friends, family, neighbours and colleagues will turn their back on you but isn't love from you other half more important?

Loving someone is more than just honeymoon and the lovvy dovvy words, presents and a dream life. Loving someone is about adaptation, moral support, sacrifices, believe and standby him through good and bad times. Let's not pick at small things shall we...

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