Status change

When I announced my status change yesterday on my facebook, I didn't except so many response which makes me blush. Yup, somehow I'm not comfortable with all the attention and I somehow wish I can click 'undo'.

I'm a very private person and it took me a long time before I actually change my status. I don't see the need for it because you're either single or married. Isn't that simpler? In facebook, it has 'it's complicated' and luckily I didn't pick that one or else I'm sure I'll get more questions from my friends. My friends mean well and their well wishes is for my happiness. However, I'm sceptial about happily ever after and I have strong reason for it.

I found my soul-mate recently but to find someone whom I can fall in love is not easy. So I guess my status change is a huge step. All the congratulations from friends make me feel a bit weird because people say congratulations when someone is getting married, right? I'm only change my status from 'single' to 'in a relationship'. Now, everyone wants to know who's the lucky guy because I have turn down many of them. There was one or two who never got over. I'm sorry if I have hurt anyone's feeling but I was once rejected, therefore, trust, open minded and honesty are the key. Someone asked me, "why I'm still single and didn't accept a man's love?" I reply, "I only choose the best and I can't commit if I don't have the same feeling."