Forget your enemies. It's your friends you frustrate that cause all the problems

Forget your enemies. It's your friends you frustrate that cause all the problems. Don't you think so. Friends are part of the community in our lives and like or not, they influence our day. We have to take care of friends feeling, support friends whenever they are feeling down and sad or maybe in trouble. In return, they will care and support us in times of need.

We would always help our friends the best to our abilities. Spending time together during sunny and rainny season and never judge other another. We accept our friends flow and weaknesses. We idolise our friends strength and courages. Without friends, our lives will be lonely and colourless. Won't that be awful?

What happen if you have a friend who frustrate you often? What happen if you have a whinny friend or gossipy friend or boneless friend? Well, you can either suck it and entertain their personality or run fast as if your life depends on it! Some may ask, why do you have such friend in the first place? Well, sometimes when we met a new friend, he/she doesn't reveal the true identity. It often took a while before we realise what we get ourselves in. By then, it's too late to do much. Most people resort to avoiding problematic friends. If you keeps hearing your friends not available, busy, not picking up your calls, you should starts to thinking...

For myself, my motto is tolerance. If I can handle my friends flows and weaknesses, I'll treat everyone the same. Of course, sometime handling a friend would require some adaptation or adjustment. You see, no one is perfect. I have my flows and weaknesses too. Sometimes my friends have to bear with my nonsense and my mood. Sometimes I have rainny days and my friends with be by my side, quiet and waiting for me to return to my chippy self. So, friends are there for a reason. Cherish your friends, don't avoid them. Love and peace.